Thank you for your perspective on the name-tag thing. I shared it with my nesting partner by reading parts of it aloud to him. We've been working on helping him to understand what my nonbinary identity means to me.
I wonder how many genderfluid, transgender, agender, or nonbinary folks would agree with you that the name-tag thing is oppressive. Personally I'm not a fan either. On social media profiles I refuse to provide my pronouns -- some people act like if you don't provide your pronouns you are failing to show solidarity with the transgender community, but what if I'm a member of that community and I don't want to provide pronouns and I don't appreciate you doing it either? It can turn into a sort of LGBT fascism, forcing everybody to declare their pronouns.
It reminds me of how many folks on the Left refer to hispanics as "Latinx" when a majority of hispanics do not like that term applied to themselves, if they've even heard of it.
It's OK for each individual to choose their identities, but when as a group or culture we force people to declare identities, or we choose identities for them without consulting them, that's taking the concept of diversity too far.
I wonder how many genderfluid, transgender, agender, or nonbinary folks would agree with you that the name-tag thing is oppressive. Personally I'm not a fan either. On social media profiles I refuse to provide my pronouns -- some people act like if you don't provide your pronouns you are failing to show solidarity with the transgender community, but what if I'm a member of that community and I don't want to provide pronouns and I don't appreciate you doing it either? It can turn into a sort of LGBT fascism, forcing everybody to declare their pronouns.
It reminds me of how many folks on the Left refer to hispanics as "Latinx" when a majority of hispanics do not like that term applied to themselves, if they've even heard of it.
It's OK for each individual to choose their identities, but when as a group or culture we force people to declare identities, or we choose identities for them without consulting them, that's taking the concept of diversity too far.